At some point, did something go wrong in your life?

[glowingfish]

 Well, that is an eye-catching title!

I was going to ask a more narrow question, but I thought about it more until I decided to phrase it this way.

Do you feel there was some axial period of your life, some juncture or turning point, where you were supposed to grow and mature, but you didn't? Some lost opportunity, either from external or internal factors, that didn't happen, and you are trying to reroute around it since?

I guess the reason I ask is that for me, it seems this is the case, and I kind of took it for granted that everyone would have a similar story. But maybe it doesn't come up for other people. 

(My original question was going to be specifically about adolescence, but maybe that wouldn't be the turning point for other people).